{"id":383,"date":"2016-07-05T18:35:34","date_gmt":"2016-07-05T22:35:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/1_1468017278"},"modified":"2016-07-05T18:35:34","modified_gmt":"2016-07-05T22:35:34","slug":"francesca-doesnt-return-francesca-kommt-nicht-zu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/infiniteroad.ch\/wordpress_infiniteroad\/?p=383","title":{"rendered":"Francesca doesn&#39;t return\/ Francesca kommt nicht zu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><![CDATA[\n\n<!-- ENTRY HEADER STARTS -->\n\n\n<table border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"10\" align=\"right\" width=\"100%\">\n  \n\n<tr>\n    \n\n<td valign=\"top\" align=\"center\" padding: 20px;>\n      \n\n<div style=\"width:50%; margin:auto; padding:10px; border:2px solid #eeeeee; text-align:center;\"> Francesca doesn&#x27;t return\/ Francesca kommt nicht zu<br \/>San Cristobal de las Casas, Mexico <\/div>\n\n\n    <\/td>\n\n\n  <\/tr>\n\n\n<\/table>\n\n\n<b>San Cristobal de las Casas, Mexico<\/b>\n\n\n\n<!-- ENTRY HEADER ENDS -->\n\n<!-- ENTRY BODY -->\n5.7.2016 San Cristobal, MEX Km: 128020 Francesca doesn&#8217;t return\/ Francesca kommt nicht zur&#xFC;ck\n\n For some time, I realize that something is wrong, as Francesca does not buy her return ticket. Since long time, she has promised to me that we will meet again and continued the journey. We always talk about it and she says yes, but means No, what I do not know but somehow feel.\n\n I am meanwhile prepared to continue and I need a definite and honest decision by her. Unfortunately, she decides not to return! This means to me that I have to cancel my trip or I&#8217;ll not see Leonardo for longer. Then I have the problem that I&#8217;ll miss much in the development of Leonardo and when I&#8217;m back he speaks Italian and he might not recognize me as a father. If I return, I need to change within days my whole life and plans. Both variants are not satisfactory for me and a psychological stress.\n\n <br \/> What should I do with the sidecar? Back to the US I don&#8217;t want, because I come from there and had the possibility to carry the sidecar earlier and sell them. It would be a time gap of 2 months and an additional 10,000 Km. In Mexico there are no sidecars and therefore probably no one would buy it. Shipping home does not help either, since I as well can no longer need him.\n\n At the moment I do not absolutely know what to do. In addition, the disagreements between us are bigger and I see a serious risk that we end our relationship and we will not see again. I need now some time to orientate myself and consider what will be best for me&#8230;\n\n \n\n  Mileage spare tires: 1731 km\n\n **********************\n\n  Seit ei***** Zeit merke ich, dass etwas nicht stimmt, da Francesca ihr Flugticket nicht kauft. Vor l&#xE4;ngerem hat sie mir versprochen dass wir uns wieder treffen und die Reise fortsetzten. Immer wieder sprechen wir dar&#xFC;ber und sie sagt jeweils Ja, meint aber Nein, was ich nicht weiss aber irgendwie f&#xFC;hle.\n\n Ich bin unterdessen bereit weiter zu fahren und ich muss eine definitive und ehrliche Entscheidung von ihr haben. Leider entscheidet sie sich nicht zur&#xFC;ck zu kehren! Dies bedeutet f&#xFC;r mich, dass ich meine Reise abbrechen muss oder Leonardo l&#xE4;nger nicht sehen werde. Dann habe ich das Problem, dass ich vieles in der Entwicklung von Leonardo verpassen werde und wenn ich zur&#xFC;ck bin er italienisch spricht und er mich ggf. als Vater nicht mehr erkennt. Wenn ich zur&#xFC;ckkehren w&#xFC;rde, muss ich innert Tage mein ganzes Leben und Pl&#xE4;ne &#xE4;ndern. Beide Varianten sind f&#xFC;r mich unbefriedigend und eine psychischer Stress.\n\n Was soll ich jetzt mit dem Seitenwagen machen. Wieder in die USA will ich auf keinen Fall, denn ich komme von da und h&#xE4;tte den Seitenwagen fr&#xFC;her mitnehmen k&#xF6;nnen und dort verkaufen. Es w&#xE4;re ein Zeitverlust von 2 Monaten und zus&#xE4;tzliche 10&#8217;000 Km. In Mexico gibt es keine Seitenwagen und somit wohl keinen der ihn kaufen w&#xFC;rde. Nach Hause schicken bringt auch nichts, da ich ihn da auch nicht mehr brauchen kann.\n\n Im Moment weiss ich absolut nicht was ich machen soll. Zudem werden die Unstimmigkeiten zwischen uns gr&#xF6;sser und ich sehe ein ernsthaftes Risiko, dass wir unsere Beziehung beenden und wir uns nie wieder sehen werden. Ich brauche nun etwas Zeit um mich neu zu orientieren und &#xFC;berlegen was das Beste f&#xFC;r mich sein wird&#8230;\n\n Kilometerstand Notreifen: 1731 km\n<br \/>\n<!-- ENTRY BODY ENDS -->\n<br \/>\n\n]]><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Francesca doesn&#x27;t return\/ Francesca kommt nicht zuSan Cristobal de las Casas, Mexico San Cristobal de las Casas, Mexico 5.7.2016 San Cristobal, MEX Km: 128020 Francesca doesn&#8217;t return\/ Francesca kommt nicht zur&#xFC;ck For some time, I realize that something is wrong, as Francesca does not buy her return ticket. 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